Have just got a new computer and thought I would try and keep in
touch with the outside world by trying to work my way around this
technology, especially when my older children are not here to help
me! We have only had it about a month and it is my first time on it
today - as you all know it's hard to find time with two especially
when they don't co-ordinate sleeps. I have been a member of NMBC
for 2years and went along to one of the expectancy programs but
found that travelling up was difficult, I know that you now have a
CC group meeting but haven't been able to make it yet.

Our twins Harmony and Harrison are now 15mths old and as a (I was
going to say "older" but don't like that word), second time around
mum I am really enjoying the experience, maybe because I am alot
more relaxed about things, but saying that it is a struggle at times
trying to work out what is the right way to go about things with two!

Any advice on what to do when they starting to fight over toys?
Harrison is a real boy who just barges in to take whatever he wants
and Harmony has been just sitting there while he does it, but has
just discovered that when they are having a tug of war over a toy if
she bites him he will let go. I feel that I shouldn't get upset
with her as it is her only line of defence but at the same time I
don't want her to keep biteing. I have been trying to ignore it and
it doesn't happen all the time but what do you do with twins when
one is more dominant than the other, maybe at this age I should just
keep distracting them onto other things when they start.

I look forward to bouncing questions off you all as I am finding
every day brings a new challenge even for an experienced Mum. I
would just love some more sleep! The other night I had 7hrs
straight sleep since they were born and daylight savings they are
now up at 5am. But all that aside we have two beautiful healthy
babies and that's all that matters (I can always catch up on sleep
in maybe 10yrs time!)

Everyone take care
Thanks for letting me rave on

Kim