Hey Pettina, I think our messages are crossing each other.

I've just realised that you're expecting. Congratulations!!

My doctor once told me that it was a good thing to feel so sick in the morning.
She said it
meant the baby was growing well. I can't repeat what my thoughts were to that!!
Some of
my friends/family were lucky enough to miss the nausea aspect of pregnancy and
they
went on to deliver happy, healthy babies, I couldn't see why I couldn't be in
their group. I
hope for you, those feelings subside quickly. You probably have your remedies,
but
Ginger tablets worked a treat for me (that and eating, eating, eating). Isn't
it weird (and
disgusting) that a pregnant woman can feel hungry and nauseous at the same time?

As for Isabella, oh dear. I have no experience there. I just feel for you both
(and for John
who probably wants all his girls smiling). I'll be thinking of you and I'm
sending you
hugs, and strength through the comfort universe.

xxx
Donna

--- In as_ap@..., "pettinabeves" <pettinabeves@...> wrote:
>
> Things have been a bit rough and i have had trouble getting out of bed
> in the morning due to sickness and the ungodly hour isabella likes to
> wake at the moment. This morning she got into Mercy's photo book that
> i keep in my bag and got a smack which just snow balled.
>
> She started crying and saying that she "needs mercy" and she "wants
> mercy" then preceeded to tell me that she was sad and followed this up
> by "Mercy dies Mercy dies".
>
> Needless to say Mummy had a lot of tears too and it was an emotional
> start to the day.
>
> When John and I chose to carry to term we askerd how this would affect
> Isabella. She was 13months when Mercy was born and we were told that
> she would barely remember. Ohhh how my heart broke this morning.
>
> Has anyone else experienced these moments with there kids. Isabella is
> only 20 months now
>