Thanks for replying to the roll call guys, it was by no means a way
to find out who to delete off our list, chatting on here isn't
compulsory for remaining in our group.

We all know that there are just some times when it's nice to retreat
into our own thoughts, and others when we simply must share our
feelings. I have those times myself.

The idea of this group is that there's always somewhere to turn when
things are tough, or when things are a joy and you need to share.

There's nothing wrong with only popping in to read once in a
while...but I encourage everyone to let us know how they're
travelling from time to time so we don't worry about you ((HUGS)).

One thing I have found in my time grieving for Ben,which began
during my pregnancy as I'm sure you all did yourselves, is how good
I felt when I saw that people had experienced the same or similar
things to me and survived it.

I quite seriously thought my heart would stop due to the pain I was
feeling at the news of Ben's Anen....that I couldn't possibly
survive the hurt I was expected to endure when he left us.

To find Leigh and know that not only did she survive losing her
precious twin son Tyson, and know that her surviving twin Reilly was
doing great...well money couldn't buy that kind of relief for me. I
truly hope that you all find similar inspiration in each other here.

Sending you all big hugs, I hope all of our pregnant mummies are
travelling ok, I know what an emotional rollercoaster having a
rainbow baby is, so lean on us.

For many of you I understand how painful seeing others around you
pregnant is right now, and I send you extra hugs in the hope that it
helps you deal with those emotions.

Lots of love

Lea xxxxxxx