It's so good to be able to write my feelings when there's no-one else around to listen to them! I have found the photo section tonight too and have posted some...
Vanessa those photos are beautiful, and is it just me or did Matthew look a lot like his mummy? I totally see you in him love. You have some amazing...
You know Vanessa, the whole idea of this group is to have a space for us to come and share our feelings, the dark ones, the happy ones, it's not a place to...
Vanessa I wanted to touch on this last night and forgot to in my tired state. "It all felt way too "normal" a thing to be doing at a time like this. I feel...
I'd love to know how each of you are doing at the moment, if you get a chance, please come in and give us all an update on how life is treating you all. Lea...
Hey there everyone, Well in answer to your question Lea life is not so great at the moment. Mores downs than ups lately but I am sure the storm will come to an...
Hello everyone, I am still around. I have been reading all of the posts and Vanessa, I am very sorry for your loss. He was a beautiful baby. Rest assured he...
Tammie and Jenny i am so sorry you are both having difficult times at the moment. Im doing "alright". I am probably having more rough days than good days and...
Thank you so much for your kind words. I felt the same when I was pregnant although the nurses and doctors reassured me over and over again that my baby was...
Thanks Tammie Some where deep inside i have snippits of hope but they fade so quickly some days. My midwife has ensured me that due to my circumstances they...
Hello, Thankyou for your concern Pettina. I'm sorry to hear of your concerns but I'm sure you have nothing to worry about (even though I know that won't make...
Im so sorry about the bird. You deserve a good cry. Sometimes it helps. That is such a beautiful piece. Thanks for sharing. ... I ... to ... on ... a ... smile...
Dear Lea, Thank you so much for your long replies. I really appreciate your thoughts at this time. Over the last few days I have spent hours at the computer...
Vanessa that was an awesome message, I won't touch on everything now as I am about to get ready to go to a party, but I wanted to talk about the photos you...
Vanessa You are teaching me soo much at this point in my life. I am still to talk to freely about Mercy's life and more importantly my feelings, particularl...
Hey Lea, I just saw your photo and I swear nearly every photo taken in our home has these 'Orbs' in it. Sometimes almost too many to count. I thought it was...
Hey every one, How are you all? Sorry for my absence lately. With every thing that has happened over the past few weeks i haven't wanted to post any thing in...
Jenny, thanks for letting me know you've had a similar experience, I have so many I couldn't possibly fill our albums with them all, but some are riddled with...
Hi Liz, Your feelings are extremely justified and definately worth posting, otherwise what would be the purpose of this group. I just wanted to say that my...
Liz, firstly, I probably did, we've all been so sick in this house, I may have missed a lot that was going on, I'll go in search and make sure when I get a...
Liz. Im soo glad you decided to post. Ive been thinking of you alot and what you (we are feeling). I must admit id like to avoid a ceasar. Bella is too full on...
Hi everyone, I came across some new research on anencephaly today and thought some of you may be interested. This link should take you to a news article on it....
Hi everyone, I am wondering if anyone could give me some feedback on the process of genetic counselling- has anyone had this done? What does it involve? Were...
Hi Vanessa, I was also 'encouraged' to do genetic counselling, and I'm glad I did as it did ease my guilt. Basically, I wanted to make sure that it wasn't...
Hi Vanessa I also had genetic counselling. It involved no tests but rather they take full family history and help see if there is a higher risk than normal of...
Grief is a strange thing, isn't it? One day I feel totally fine and wonder what an earth has happened! Other days I am paralysed to do anything and feel...
Wow vanessa 1 month. It has gone by fast. Mercys first birthday was the same. All of a sudden it was here. Where did the year go. I can still remember all the...
Hi everyone, I received the following SMS from Pettina this morning about her baby boy born last night and she's asked me to pass the news on to you all... "We...
Heartfelt congratulations to Pettina and family on the birth of their son Nathanial John, what joyful news, can't wait to see some photos of your little...
Pettina, I'm remembering your little princess Mercy Grace today on her anniversary. There must've been many mixed emotions for you all today, I hope the day...
